Mediation for expats, work disputes and complex family conflicts

Conflicts are part of life, but they do not have to be unsolvable. As an ADR-registered mediator, trained in accordance with the MfN quality standards, I support expats, employees, employers and families in reaching clear and sustainable solutions. By paying attention to both practical and emotional aspects, I facilitate constructive dialogue and agreements that truly work.

Clear solutions for conflicts

As a mediator in the Netherlands, I assist both expats and Dutch clients with employment disputes, family conflicts and high-conflict divorces.
In situations where cultural differences, distance or language barriers may intensify tensions, I help parties engage in constructive dialogue. Through mediation, we work together towards solution-focused conversations and sustainable, workable agreements.

My areas of expertise

  • High-conflict divorces & family mediation
    From improving communication to developing a parenting plan, with attention to everyone’s voice – including that of the children. Together we create clear, workable agreements and greater calm in complex family matters.
  • Expat conflicts in the Netherlands
    Conflicts and divorces involving expats in the Netherlands. I mediate in Dutch, English and German, and help bridge cultural differences, distance and language barriers so that tensions can be resolved constructively.
  • Employment mediation
    Restoring working relationships or guiding parties towards a respectful separation, including within international teams. The focus is on clear communication and sustainable solutions.

Approach

Flexible and tailored: I work both on location and online, discreetly and efficiently. With clear agreements on time and costs, you know exactly what to expect, allowing you to focus fully on the solution.

Working towards a solution together

The aim is to reach agreements that are clear, workable and fair, that subsequently provide calm, clarity and structure, helping to prevent future conflicts.

📞 Contact me today to discover how mediation can make the difference

 

Familymediation

Resolving conflicts within families

International expat mediation

Resolve international conflicts

Workplace mediation

Resolving conflicts in the workplace

Coaching at Ernica Mediation & Coaching

Coaching helps you gain more balance, direction and control in your personal and professional life. Whether it's about communication, reintegration, relationships or corporate coaching, every programme is tailored and focused on lasting results.

Together, we explore what holds you back and what opportunities you have. Through targeted questions and reflection, you discover your own solutions and insights, making changes sustainable and effective. Every programme is tailored to your goals, situation and personal preferences — in person or online, in Dutch, English or German.

Specialisations (brief overview)

  • Communication coaching: more effective communication and better collaboration
  • Reintegration coaching: return to work and sustainable employability
  • Relationship coaching: strengthening personal and professional relationships
  • Corporate coaching: guiding teams and organisations through development and change

Goal: greater clarity, control and resilience, both personally and professionally.

📞 Get in touch today and discover how coaching can make all the difference.

Communication

Discover how to communicate more effectively and understand each other better.

Reintegration

Support in returning to work and step-by-step strengthening of your resilience.

Relationships

Improve connection and collaboration in personal and professional relationships.

Corporatecoaching

Develop teams, leaders and organisational processes effectively and constructively.

Caroline Oudakker
Caroline OudakkerMediator & Coach
+31 (0)653 68 41 26

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